| Mar. 11th, 2006 @ 08:18 pm update!!! |
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Dear You,
It's been a while since i last posted...I have so much to tell you! Ok, let me start first with my love life. Do i even have one? LOL, kidding.
Last Wednesday, this guy texted me regarding business. Let's name this guy "tonto" just so no one gets confused as i go along.(You know what tonto means right?hehe) Anyway, we were talking about business through text and I ended up calling his mobile because he had a lot of questions and my fingers were so damn tired pressing the buttons.So I told him all that he had to know and he wanted us to talk about it over the phone (landline) so he sent me his number and I called him up. We talked about it again then he ended up telling me stories about our common friend until i got carried away as well and started talking. That was our first time to talk over the phone and we ended around 2:30 in the morning! Wow...so much for a fist time huh? (wait, that didn't sound right....heheheheh)Anyway, the next day, Thursday, he texted me asking what time my class ends and i told him that i had no class already and i'm in starbucks. I was pissed also that day because of country style, they gave me tuna sandwhich without anything inside but tuna! So i told him also that i was pissed, then he said "wanna talk about it? if you want I can go to your house pa nga eh". So he ended up going to my place and that was officially the first time we met. I extended my hand for a handshake and so did he. We started talking again and he left at 2:30 in the morning again. (is this some kind of a call time or something?) So it's Friday already, he offered to take me home after my class. We met up at starbs then went to agno to meet up with kate and the rest of the bears. After hanging out with them, he took me home, He called me up as soon as he finished his usual routine and talked again until this time 2:45 am. The next day, Saturday, he did some errands at makati and texted me if he could drop by, so he did. We talked a little and went to starbs shang. We did all the talking there. He told me that he can't picture himself in a relationship. He said he's afraid of getting hurt and he doesn't know what he's capable of once he's in a relationship already. Tears filled up my eyes and i wiped them as fast as i could but unfortunately, he saw it. (damn it!) The reason why i almost cried was because i felt sad not only for him but for myself. Why? Because it's another failure in love for me. Before tonto came, i really liked this guy (vinci) but he wasn't over his ex so there was no chance for us even if he likes me. Then with tonto, according to our common friend, tonto told him that he really likes me and then this???? Another failure coz he can't commit? I told tonto that getting hurt is part of life. You can never take that away. It's inevitable. Plus, iy plays a huge part in life. It's one of the big factors why we grow as a person. That's why we are molded into a better person because of pain, experiences, etc. He agreed with me but he still told me he's not ready. Sunday came, I started to feel his coldness. I tried to ignore it coz to be honest, it was really killing me. We were text messaging in the morning but i had to stop texting him because there was actually nothin to talk about and I could really feel him giving me the cold shoulder. He didn't text me anymore til monday. Monday, I met up with Pao my mahn, my partner, my scratchy. )hehe) we talked about tonto and pao showed me tonto's text for him sunday night. it said "pao, favor naman o. Can you text Joe whatever lang and tell me if she replies. Thanks amigo!" --- I was wondering why he asked pao to do that. Then Pao said tonto texted me Sunday night and I didn't reply. Then my phone rings...speaking of the devil, it was tonto. He texted me using his sun number and asked why i didn't reply to his message, i told him the truth that I didn't receive any. I invited him to go to starbs where pao, Cindy and I were and he did. We teased each other a little then headed off for class. After my class, 5:45pm, kate asked me to go to agno, so I did. Then Tonto came, he said hi and told us he'll just go inside the campus. Cindy asked Pao and I to take her to EGI because she doesn't know the way, so we did. When we came back, kate said, "Joe, I have bad news..." i sad, "what?". Kate whispered in my ear, "he went home na. Sabi niya sabihin ko na lang daw sa inyo na nauna na siya". So yes, i felt really sad and texted him. I asked him why he left so soon. He said he wan't feeling well. So I invited Kate and Tin to drink with me at GP. So we did. But Kate left before 9 and tin and I stayed a little longer. I got so drunk man! Swear! Met new guys there and treated us a lot of gin! About 3 pitchers! hehehe... So there...before i went home, i vomitted at EGI. It was really funny...but anyway, it's Tuesday again, Tonto and I texted in the morning. He was really giving me the cold shoulder. I gave him the reciprocity process. I didn't text him either. Next day, Wednesday, I went to school and Pao told me that Tonto called him up at home and said he really likes me but he's afraid of getting hurt and does not want to commit. Also he said, he does not want me to expect. Uhm, Hello?! That's what he did! He made me expect! Now, he's not texting or doing anything. All I can say is, he's STUPID! That';s why I used Tonto as of now to be his name because that's what he is! He's stupid!!! If he knew from the very beginning that he wasn't ready to commit or even get hurt, why the hell did he make the moves on me and he should've talked to me about business only. If he wanted to be friends with me, then he shouldn't have showed any affection! Tsap Tsing! grrr! But i'm ok now. It's not my loss anyway.... btw, yesterday, I caught him flirting with this girl, and i finally found the answer to my question. He said he's afraid to commit because he does not want to get hurt. But with what I saw yesterday, I don't believe him. I think the real reason why he's afraid to commit, it's not because he's afraid of pain, but because HE CANNOT COMMIT HIMSELF TO ONE GIRL ONLY! I've got a point right? So, if he thinks he's all that, he's wrong! I'm no fool. He doesn't know what he's missing....hehehehe.....
We had our field trip ealier today. It was really fun because i got to bond with my buddy Chris!!! We had a very nice talk...sigh...i miss the bear family! That's it for now...gtg..... |
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